In this post, I will separate myths from facts regarding homeschooling. Like other topics within academic spheres, homeschooling is rife with false information, which leads to misinformation, harmful stereotypes, and stigmas. When remote learning became mandatory during the COVID-19 pandemic, homeschooling experienced a Renaissance, as homeschooling families received admiration for success in educating students at home. However, as remote learning has been stigmatized due to the effects on the students, homeschooling again suffers from these stereotypes. Homeschooling is not for everyone; it’s an academic path chosen on behalf of the parents after much contemplation and intent.

Myth 1. Homeschool Students Are Not Properly Socialized:

The subject of socialization is the most common stereotype associated with homeschooling. Homeschool students have more opportunities for socialization due to flexible schedules. Additionally, many students are members of homeschool co-ops, which offer socialization events such as prom, family events, and graduation ceremonies like their public school counterparts.

Unlike public school students who are socialized horizontally, homeschool students are socialized vertically. The homeschool environment allows students to relate to students older and younger than themselves, forming social bonds generally not accounted for in the public school setting. My students can relate to adults and students in lower grades, preparing them for the adult world and the relationships they will encounter in the work environment.

People often comment on my student’s mature behavior and disposition in public. They recognize something different about them that sets them apart from other young adults their age. Structured verticle socialization allowed by homeschool education forms much of this polished behavior.

Don’t let this negative stereotype affect your decision to homeschool your students. Misinformation embodied by family members, friends, and significant others will see the positive benefits of verticle socialization.

Myth 2. Homeschool Students Don’t Have An Academic Schedule:

Academic complacency is another common misunderstanding about homeschooled families and students portrayed by public opinion. Homeschooling parents take academics very seriously and seek resources helping to lead their students to success. Public schools are not perfect institutions; mass education is not for every student. As parents, we can meet our students on their level and adapt subject material specifically to their learning styles. Reaching students where they are leads to academic success and paves the way for an education that will benefit them far into the future.

Our academic day was very structured; school began at 9:00 a.m. and ended by 3:00 p.m., Monday through Thursday. I reserved Friday for educational videos and nearby field trips. All subject material was completed during class time, eliminating the need for homework and allowing my students free time for the remainder of the day. Because there is less time wasted in homeschooling, our school day does not require the need for homework.

Myth 3. Homeschool Students Cannot Go To College:

Disqualification from higher education is one of the biggest myths about homeschool education. Not only are homeschooled students eligible to attend universities, they are independent learners and make better students. Accredited umbrella programs provide official high school diplomas accepted by major universities and academic programs, providing homeschooled students the same opportunities as public school students.

Myth 4. Homeschooling Is Only For Religious Families:

Not true. The most common reason parents homeschool their children is the negative institutionalized environment of the public school setting. The desire for religious education is second, followed by individualized instruction tailored for the student. Surprisingly, many religions prefer secular homeschool curriculums and integrate their values into lessons when appropriate.

For example, we are a non-religious family and homeschool our children via a secular curriculum and programs. While many homeschool co-ops are faith-based, homeschooling is not just for religious families.

Myth 5. Homeschool Kids Cannot Play Sports Or Partifipate In Extracurricular Activities:

Many parents do not know that local school boards are required by law to allow homeschoolers to participate in public school sports, music programs, or other after-school activities. Additionally, many community programs welcome homeschoolers to play in recreational leagues, martial arts, and other community service projects. My students, who participate in Karate, currently hold a Brown Belt and will be promoted to Black Belt this fall.

Homeschooling is more than an education but a lifestyle. As a homeschooled family, we make education our focus in ways that are beyond the textbook. Errands and grocery shopping can be a teaching opportunity as we prepare our students for life. Anything can be a teaching opportunity; all you need to do is look and encourage a sense of wonder in your students.

In addition to being an accomplished homeschooling mom, I am a published author, multi-disciplinary writer, and website content creator. If you like this post, please visit my writing portfolio of work and other blogs.

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